Both will have the same latency, however using the traversal server allows you to use a host code instead of your IP Address.
Newer Dolphin versions are more likely to have fixes for Netplay.
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SSBM EMULATOR ONLINE MAC MAC OS X
Melee on Mac OS X using Dolphin Emulator.